Saturday, January 23, 2010


wow..i haven't written on here for almost a month.
well, i have a pretty hectic schedule lately.

a little update on me:

-my maid is still not here yet due to some reasons.
-i am a math & moral teacher now..;p (teaching form 3, 4 & 5)
-i'm looking forward to spend more time with my spouse.haha.
-in a process to restock my tudung...;p
-i miss cooking but no time to do so.sorry honey.huhu
-exclusive daughter is almost 4 months old now.i read the optimal duration of
exclusive BF is 6 i'm trying my best here.
-menstruation not yet returned ( which is a good sign..;p)

oh how i love writing main points!coz i'm not very good at elaborating.haha.i'm not a poetic kind of person u see.i think i'm good at giving out points and patterns rather than using language to express and appreciate complex meanings.hehe.
i believe that i have developed myself quite well with logical-mathematical intelligence and naturalist intelligence. As far as i'm concerned, i'm pretty good at numbers and calculation (i love solving maths problems) and i love natures.i think that explains why i was majoring in biology and chemistry in the first place.

On the contrary, mylocx is a word smart, musical smart (plays musical instruments, quite aware of sounds that others may miss) and picture smart (spatial intelligence) he completes me.

oh why do i talk about intellligence here?
let's talk about birth control instead.

i suppose my birth control method for the time being is LAM (Lactational Amenorrhea Method).This refers to natural postpartum infertility that occurs when a woman is not menstruating due to breastfeeding. Exclusive breastfeeding has been shown to be an excellent form of birth control, but there are certain criteria that must be met for breastfeeding to be used effectively such as:

  1. The baby is less than six months old
  2. Menstrual period have not yet returned
  3. Baby is breastfeeding on cue (both day & night), and gets nothing but breastmilk or only token amounts of other foods.
Mylocx is particularly concern about all this BF thing.hehe.He's been very supportive about the idea of exclusive BF.From my point of view, i don't really think it's easy if we're not well-prepared.(constant pumping, storing, etc)

Mylocx strongly disagree with hormonal birth control methods like pills, shots, implants etc.Dia betul2 taknak hormon bini dia ni terganggu.or berat badan naik ke apa ke.haihh orang laki ni.demanding tol.sayangkan suami turut2kan la.haha.So we opt for other alternatives like natural family planning and barrier methods.(bonus: LAM).

hmm enough of all BF is sunday.(happy mode coz cuti).Both of my sisters-in-law are staying at my house this weekend.Mylocx and i are planning to spend time together and doing what we really enjoy most--watching movie (sudah lama hobi ini terkubur).Hopefully my SILs are willing to look after sofea.
pagi ni derang nak pi mandi air terjun kat sg.gabai hulu langat since my house tak berapa jauh ngan hulu langat.tengah hari kang baru tunggu derang balik baru we all kua la nampaknye.hihi.

okie's already 9 o'clock.bath time for sofea.she's playing with nadia after poo poo dengan begitu kuat sekali.harap x bocor la.huhu.Her developments so far:

-making sound like mmemmmmemmmmeemm without getting bored..;p
-trying hard to turning over.tapi xboleh2.haha.but she can roll from back to side.tengah mengiring-ngiring la skang ni.360 darjah pun dah pass dah.haha.
-giving good respond when people talk to her-smiles back, laughs back, talks back (emmeemmmemmemm)

till then.


Angah said...

Hi Effa! How r u doing? Baby sofea amacam? Hopefully semua ok2 :-)

逛街 said...

Necessity is the mother of invention..........................