solid food

hmm sofea dah start eating solids last week.(monday)..dia belum cukup 6 months lagi.tp sebab doktor kata dah boleh start solid dan dia pun eager je tengok orang makan so me n mylocx pun belikan la nestle cerelac, rusk (Milna) & apple juice for babies.so far mmg die enjoy sgt makanan dia tu.but she still breastfeeding.kitorang dah belikan Enfalac formula milk takut2 susu badan tak cukup ke apa.but so far supply mmg ada jd susu formula tu kira back up jela.

okla nnt2 la update cte lain plak.

playgym?

haritu mylocx belikan sofea playgym and soft jungle cubes since she's very attracted to bright colors.hehe.tapi nampak gayanya..kadang2 je dia suka main benda2 tu.most of the time lagi suka and engaged dgn sofa cover, mommy's tudung, curtains, mat, bed sheet ngan pillow cover.haha.camne tu?mylocx kata..ntah2 ada minat kat interior design kot.boleh pakai ke teori tu?

haha.takdela.main2 je.tapi memang sofea sekarang ni akan rolling over away from the playgym.kalau main pun memang kejap sangat.cuma dia suka bila mommy/daddy cakap2 ngan dia sambil main2 dgn toys tu.duklaa tengok mommy & daddy sampai kitorang dah habis idea nak cakap apa.haha.tapi bila tinggal dia playing alone dia akan main2 carpet, tikar or ape2 jela selain playgym and soft toys tu.

itulah anakku so far.haha.

still not giving her solid food yet.next month kot.tapi sekarang ni muka dia gaya cam teringin je bila tengok orang minum/makan.hehe.sabar eh sofea.next month je..;)

ngantuknye.....

hmm...

sangatlah kurang bermaya hari ini.sbb apa?malam tadi sofea bangun beberapa kali.tidur sekejap nangis..tidur sekejap nangis from 11 to 2 a.m. Rasanya puncanya i jugak.sebab malam tadi before tidur main2 ngan dia sampai tergelak-gelak dia dgn meriahnya.orang kata jangan bagi anak gelak banyak2 sangat malam2..kang nanti tidur nangis2..i pun ala caya tak caya je kan..tp sejak malam tadi sudah mula percaya kot..;p

tapi after 2a.m tu sofea tidur macam biasala..alhamdulillah.letih tol bangun tidur bangun tidur ni.sebaikla esok cuti.kalau time hari kerja tak tahu nak cakapla penat tu cane.haha.
hmm.....harini i tak buat apa sangat.planning nak marking the remaining exam papers tu la.mylocx plak keje malam skang ni.so pagi2 ni memang time dia tidur la.haha.btw, last sunday, kitorang bawa sofea jalan2 kat taman tasik ampang.balik2 kenduri membe terus singgah situ.dahla baru lepas hujan..memang sgt nyaman.bes bes.sofea siap tertidur2 kat situ.haha.
kitorang jalan sampai lenguh2 la senang citer.terasa jenuh plak nak pusing satu taman tu.aihh nampak sangatla lama tak bersenam and dah banyak urat tegang i ni.ahaha.



sebenarnya me n mylocx tak sabar sgt nak bawa sofea pg art gallery or aquaria.tapi mylocx kata tunggu dia besar sket so dia boleh enjoy tgk sume2 tuh.actually mommy dia ni haa yg lebih nak tgk mnde2 tu.ahaha.ape2pun nanti kita pegi jalan2 lagi eh cayang.mmuah.

laid-back

hmm..i cuti seminggu starting from tomorrow.What a relief! Sebab loads of works need to be done. I have to handle sports team (panglima), students performance for Majlis Anugerah Kecemerlangan Sekolah, marking papers, typing exam questions bla bla bla.

i'm not a perfectionist, workaholic or overachiever kindda person. i'm a laid-back person and i prefer do things with a relaxed attitude rather than a frantic attitude.my friends kadang2 envy dgn cara i macam ala2 cool je buat kerja dan tak nampak macam i stres pun (ye la tu).OMG, sapa la yg tak stres sayang oi..haha.tapi what's the point nak tunjuk2 stres..kang lagi bertambah2 stres!
Yang penting..whatever it is, get things done no matter how laid back you are..;p
i selalu ingatkan diri sendiri don't sweat the small stuff sbb sometimes bad things lead to the best things.Life goes on.We can't always please everybody so we live and learn everyday.

Lagi2 skang ni tanggungjawab dah semakin berat. i kalau boleh tak nak la tua and sakit cepat disebabkan stres melampau.haha.tapi yelakan semuanya atas izin Allah. Yang penting, usaha & tawakkal.Focus on what we have, not what we have to do. I wish i can appreciate what i have, while i still have it.

When i'm feeling threatened by things that haven't happened yet, i remember these words by Ralph Waldo Emerson:

Some of your hurts you have cured,

And the sharpest you still have survived,

But what torments of grief you endured

From the evil which never arrived.

red sign??

oh my my..

This is my first menstruation after childbirth.

patutla rasa lain macam je semalam...pening la..sakit2 badan la..ngantukla..sumerla..

i read that menstruation after pregnancy is unpredictable and can differ from woman to woman and it changes monthly in the same woman.

After child birth ovulation and menstruation need not happen together. You may have your period without ovulation or may ovulate and then get your first period shortly after. Banyak ibu2 tak tau pun they're are ovulating and get caught out falling pregnant!..Senang citer, pregnancy and child birth can bring changes in menstrual cycle.Kalau menstruation returns pun, it can be very irregular. It'll become more normal and regular once the body is healed and the uterus returns to its normal size and starts functioning quite normally.

So, over time, as everything else, menstruation after birth will return to normalcy..;)

5 months sofea

What i do for my 5 months daughter so far:

~ breastfeed and bottlefeed her with breast milk (planning to introduce solid foods at 6 months)
~ talk to her in multiple languages (malay, english, arabic(zikir & quran), simple mandarin)
~ keep her laughter flowing with my silly faces;p
~ tell my friends and family to approach her with slow gentle movements because she becomes
anxious around new people and may cry if a stranger suddenly approaches her.
~ let her get used to being around people other than me and mylocx.
~ play peek-a-boo.
~ outing (shopping/travelling/hanging out with family&friends) atleast once a week.